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Americans and their habits of charity and helping.

Saturday, January 23rd, 2010

I am sure I will probably get some tough criticism on this blog post, but I feel very strongly about this and just have to get it off my chest.  I am all for helping others and being charitable.  If someone is in need, I would love to help them.  I have always been that way.  But the way Americans “help” others just really pisses me off some times. 

Since the disaster of the horrible storms in Haiti, all I ever see on American television now is “donate to help Haiti”.  Do this, do that, so on and so forth to help Haiti.  On nearly EVERY channel the other day was the same exact benefit show for the people of Haiti.  I couldn’t escape it.  That’s great.  Kudos to the people who help Haiti.

However, what upsets me, is that I NEVER see Americans pull together this much for their own people.  If we have a major catastrophe, there is a momentary flood of people wanting to “help” and then it’s like everyone forgets it happened and the “help” fizzles out.  America has huge numbers of homeless and unemployed people.  We have actual “tent cities” where our own people have lost their jobs, their health insurance, their homes, and everything else and have no one helping them.  American homeless living in tents that our government put together for them.  Many people don’t even have THAT luxury and are just living on the streets. 

I saw on the news about the American woman who is adopting two little girls from an orphanage in Haiti.  What about all the orphans here in America?  Why aren’t they being adopted??

Our economy is in a horrid state.  People are losing everything they own and their jobs.  Insurance companies are raping us.  Disease and illness are killing us because the insurance companies don’t care.   And instead of putting their money into our failing economy and supporting causes to improve our situation, we are sending it to every other country that needs anything.  Think of all the money being poured into other countries for aid and war support… then think of how all that money could help us get off our feet.

Our nation is riddled with crime and drugs.  We are fighting the “war on drugs” here with no money to support it.  Our police are being laid off because we can’t pay them.  Our schools that teach children not to become criminals, are being closed down and stripped of funds because we can’t afford to support them.  Yet we continue to funnel our money into wars and to support countries at war so that THEY can become strong and safe.  We continue to send money to other countries to educate THEIR children.

Please… please… please… know that I am all for supporting other countries.  It’s just that… well… why do Americans even THINK that we are in any position to help everyone else when we can’t even help ourselves??  If we stopped trying to help everyone else, just long enough to become a strong and healthy nation again… just IMAGINE how much we could really help other countries then!  We would be in a much better financial position to help other countries.  Americans do everything backwards!

I want to see Americans making benefit shows to improve the American economy.  Benefit shows to aid all the homeless Americans.  Benefit shows to keep our schools open.  I want to see the news showing daily coverage of homeless families living in these tent cities.  Coverage of the little girl who lost her mom to cancer because her insurance company denied their claims… and her father committed suicide because they lost everything and he felt like a failure… so now she is orphaned and no one will adopt her because they already adopted a child from another country.  That’s what I want to see on the news!  American families struggling to survive day to day.  Why don’t I see this??  Sure, the news does  a short blurb on the state of unemployment… or the state of home foreclosures… but I don’t see graphic images of homeless people living on the streets of America in need of help.  Freezing out in the cold snow and rain.  I don’t see charity organizations producing commercials saying “just one quarter will put shoes on this American orphan girls feet”.

WHY?!  Because Americans live in this dream world of DENIAL.  We don’t want to see that our nation is in shambles.  So no one REALLY talks about it.  Instead, we focus on other countries and their misfortune. 

Am I the only one who sees what is happening here????

Jean Paul Lacombe kidnapped off school bus!

Wednesday, December 16th, 2009

Ohhhh my goodness!  I just saw on the news about this poor little boy who was recently kidnapped by his father, Jean Philippe Lacombe.  He somehow falsely convinced a judge to court order that the child be put into the father’s custody.  So officers went with the father to the school bus where they forced the boy off kicking, screaming, and pleading for someone to help stop them.  He cried out that he was not his father and that he abused and hit him.  He fought with every inch of him to stay on that bus.

So they pull him off the bus, hand him over to the father, and now the father has fled the country.  He isn’t supposed to have custody of him and now they are both missing.

This absolutely INFURIATES me!  This is just another case of people just “doing their job” and nothing more.  Why didn’t anyone stop to question if the boy was telling the truth or not??  Why the hell did they hand the boy over?  I don’t care if it was court ordered.  If I were a police officer, I would have at least made some phone calls or something.  I would have double checked and told my superiors what the boy was saying.  Seriously, how can they live with themselves knowing the boy was crying out for help and they handed him right over to the bad guy?

Not only that, but they did this one a school bus full of small children!!  What the hell??  Those children are certainly traumatized by that.  It probably scared the crap out of them.  And what about any friends that boy may have had on that bus?  Imagine their horror!

This is just unacceptable!  Yet again, just another reason why people disgust me.

Vicious murders, beatings, and rape running rampant.

Saturday, November 7th, 2009

I was trying to decide what topic I wanted to blog about next.  I had plans to talk specifically about the man who killed his wife and child, then himself.  I heard about it on the news a day or two ago.  But when I started to look for more information on the Internet, I was bombarded by news headlines about a billion other horrible crimes.  It just pissed me off and really made me want to talk about the whole mess of the world in general.

First, about this man who killed his wife and child.  He had Parkinsons and although they had a nice home and seemed to be a happy family, they apparantly were having financial problems.  Now, whether or not the wife was in on this or not… I just want to say… that is so selfish.  He killed his 9 year old son.  I’m sorry, but just because you created your child, you do not have the right to just murder him when YOU don’t want to deal with the world and your problems anymore.  The least you  could do is kill yourself and leave them alive.  I know that sounds horrible, but it’s much less selfish then taking the lives of everyone around you.  Although they would be traumatized, at least they could move on and hopefully have a happy life later on.

I came across headlines about a fiance who brutally beat his fiancee just before their wedding.  Another about a step father who beat his 2 year old to death.  Then there is the guy who went on the rampage at Fort Hood shooting everyone around him.  Not to mention I heard on the news about a poor elderly woman walking in her senior community that was stabbed and killed.  Not too long before that I heard about some guy who was caring for an elderly woman, raped and murdered her.

WHY????? 

I am not a violent person and I certainly wouldn’t want to stoop to their level, but this stuff really envokes feelings of vengeance.  NO PLACE IS SAFE anymore.  Not even in the best neighborhoods.  Hell, not even in your own home some times.  Now days you have to worry about whether or not your significant other lost their job and is going to come home and kill you because they think you are both better off dead.  Or if your teenager is going to freak out, decide their tired of all the antidepressant medication and your authority and kill you.  Or if they will just kill themselves.  Or if they will go to the school and shoot everyone in their classroom.  Or if the seemingly normal guy down the street is going to go whacko and kill your pets.

I just don’t understand it.  I don’t understand how people have no value for life and happiness anymore.  You know, if I lost everything I have… my money, my home, and even the people I love… yes, I would be horribly depressed and feel helpless.  But the one thing I would not feel… is that life is not worth living anymore.  I certainly would not feel like my depression or anger would give me the right to hurt someone else.  Even if you lose everything that means anything to you… it is NOT the end of the world.  It does not have to be the end of your life.  Time heals wounds if you get up and brush yourself off and move on.  Sure, it’s hard for a long time, but things can get better if you make it happen.  People just let the sadness and anger take over their lives.  It really is a waste too.  I cherish even the simplest things.  If the sun is shining and there is a warm breeze… then I am happy to be experiencing it.  I would accept losing everything important to me and that warm sunny day… over death… any time.  Why?  Because I know that things will not be bad forever if I don’t let them.