The Wonderful Secret Of Sex That Many Women Do Not Know!!!

[CarolineWH]

I was brought up in a sexless family....My Mother and Father hardly ever showed any affection...I have seen pictures of two beautiful young people who were in love with each other and I still wonder just what went wrong...But it did.....Unfortunately, they never divorced.....So I grew up in fear and never truly knew what a close family life was....Saying this, I vowed that I would never have a marriage like what I had seen....And we don't....My husband and I are mush....Plain hot sexual mush...Nuff on that...

As I grew as a woman I prepared to be all that I had heard that I would become...You know hot and sexual until your 30's and then start to go downhill....Well nature surprised me and at age 47 I had a complete hysterectomy and they took out my ovaries...Try that one on for size with only Premarin as the drug hormone of the hour....BUT, I knew being married to a hot and great looking stud, that I had better get this together and learn to ohhhhhh and ahhhhh at the right times to fool him into thinking that I was still hot.....I worked at this and then I worked with my mind...Slowly the sexual woman inside me came back...All the books were wrong...I was alive and believe me, so was he....

Now what happens when you enter your 50's completely barren and you start to respond like a teenager going in heat....I did....So now we have a mid-life age woman who is really beginning to find herself...None of this is written in the books but instead is written that I will be cold and frigid...Not want sex and life would be slowing down.....The heat continued...I got better and my 60's were some of my best years....Nothing but an active mind and some Premarin and a man that loved me and I loved him......

By my late 60's this cat was hot....Nobody tells us about it and shortly after this I found my first Sexual Health Message Board.. They thought I was two bricks short of a full load as I was blogging and did not know what a blog was...This was three years ago..(I still do occasionally post there)...I was a woman in love and women were not supposed to be like this at this age...I got hold of some books that big sexual doctors and writers wrote and could not find myself...Instead I found younger women that are informed that they will be peaking at 30 and then I am wondering where in the devil am I....I went through my 30's and was busy raising kids and sometimes looking at the tiles on the ceiling and counting the thrusts until he was done....Oh, we had some great sex but not like now....Now I am awake and just may soon peak but then again maybe I am still too young...

Three years ago I got some hormone help...It is called Estring...It is inserted vaginally and I got that because I was getting so darn sore from too much sex....That is it as far as hormone replacement for me....Life is good....

This thread is for one thing and one thing only......It is to tell women don't believe what they say when you read that you will be peaking at 30......You aren't even close....Why do you think there are so many women on the Internet dating sites now looking for men in their late 40's on up.....You got it....They want a bit of what I have....

Just my thoughts....Caroline

[avorrgorrus]

I wish I knew all the great sex secrets, I am all ears for any sound advice?

[CarolineWH]

This site is not about sex.....This is unfortunate as it is the most gratifying experience of a person's life.....Looking back at our life, my mind is a book of knowledge....Ah, what a journey it has been.......i